Learning to Let Go
Originally sent October 30, 2024
Leaves seem to have an uncanny ability to know when they need to let go and embrace what’s next. When trees release their leaves, they aren’t worrying about the cold winter ahead. They trust in the process that’s been set in motion by their Creator. They know that after a time of rest, new life will emerge.
St. Ignatius of Loyola speaks to this in his concept of holy indifference. It’s not about being apathetic or unfeeling; rather, holy indifference is an openness to God’s will in our lives, no matter the outcome. It’s about loosening our grip on what we think we need or what we’re afraid to lose, and trusting that God’s vision for our lives goes beyond our own. Just as trees let go of their leaves, we, too, are called to release our attachment to control, success, or specific outcomes.
This isn’t easy. My mind is often filled with the phrase, “I will be happy when…”. But holy indifference means letting go of our attachment to any specific outcome and trusting God to bring forth what is best. It’s a reminder that our true purpose doesn’t depend on any one result but on our faithful response to God’s call in each moment.
This fall, I invite you to join me in a reflection on holy indifference. What would it look like to let go of striving to control the outcomes and instead be content with God’s timing? In the process we might experience God’s love in deeper ways as we wait and watch for his movement in our lives.
Reflection Questions:
What is one desire or goal am I holding too tightly, and how might holy indifference invite me to loosen my grip?
Are there things I’m carrying that prevent me from fully embracing where God is leading me? Is it time for me to lay it down?
How might God be inviting me to experience more of His love so it’s easier to let go of things I can’t fix, control, or change?
